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Argument
from God Hating Esau
A
case in point on this issue is the belief that God literally
hated Esau in Romans 9, in the
sense of despise or loathe, before Esau did any wrong. This
ignores the fact of how Jesus told us that to love Him we
must hate our families in Luke
14:26. “If any man come to me, and hate not his
father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren,
and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my
disciple.”
But the Bible also says in 1Timothy
5:8 “But if any provide not for his own, and specially
for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is
worse than an infidel.” So we see that despising our
families was not what the Lord was commanding. Hate was
not literal in the sense of despising or having animosity,
but said in a comparative sense.
This was figure of speech common at that time and was not to
be taken to mean despise, but to mean choose above. I
take the Bible more literal than probably 99.9999% of Christians,
but I don’t take it literal where it is obviously figurative,
and I do not define terms and expressions outside their biblical
usage, especially when that puts them in direct contradiction
to a vast body of other scripture. This figure of speech
delineates choosing one above another, plain and simple.
This is proven contextually in Genesis
29:30-31 where it is said that Jacob loved Rachael more
than Leah in verse 30, and the
Lord said in verse 31 that Jacob
hated her. Obviously this was not hate in the sense of extreme
dislike for someone, but rather choosing one above another.
My pastor explained it like this. If you tell your
wife you love her, but then tell her there is a woman at work
you love more, that sure doesn’t feel like love to your wife. The
point is that you have chosen one above the other.
The usage in Romans 9 is identical
and does not indicate that God hated Esau unto damnation for
no good reason, but rather chose Jacob above him with regard
to national election, which is the context. The fact
that Paul is quoting the Old Testament here should give the
honest exegete a desire to return to where the quote occurred
and study the context. The quote comes from Malachi
1:2-3. Just as in Romans the context here is one
of national election, not personal salvation.
Argument
from Pharaoh’s Reprobation
Another
case in point is that Romans 9 goes
on to say that Pharaoh was raised up to resist God. The
Calvinist would say that God is referring to making or forming
Pharaoh into his enemy, possibly from a young age, by eternal
decree before he was even born. In doing this they
are building upon the erroneous conclusions they have drawn
from the prior passages on Jacob and Esau and applying them
here. But this is not what the passage is saying. It
is saying that God “raised up” Pharaoh to a position of power. This
is probably in the sense of uplifted and sustained, rather
than getting him there, but either view does not libel God’s
character. It says nothing about Pharaoh’s personal
choices throughout life. If you go back to Exodus
8 and 9 where God’s dealing
with Pharaoh during his rule you will see that Pharaoh is
being hardened for his actions. This is obviously what
Paul is refereeing to here in Romans
9. God is actively using Pharaoh for his purposes,
which is the point of Romans 9,
but he is not predetermining to damn Pharaoh and failing
to provide a mechanism through which he could repent, believe
and be saved. This is an extra biblical presumption
forced on the passage by someone stuck within a Calvinistic
paradigm.
Argument
from Predetermined Mercy and Hardening
Yet
another case in point is how the Calvinist defines passages
like Romans 9:18 “Therefore
hath he mercy on whom he will have mercy, and whom he will
he hardeneth.” They apply this to the issue of
personal salvation. Well, didn’t God already say who
he would have mercy on?
Didn’t He say who He would harden and why? This is not
some mystical eternal decree, it is in His word. The
word “mercy” is used 261 times in the Bible. National
election and God dealing with His enemy Pharaoh is the context
that mercy is used here in Romans 9. Of
course He hardened Pharaoh. God said in Proverbs
29:1 “He, that being often reproved hardeneth his neck,
shall suddenly be destroyed, and that without remedy.” God
hardens those who harden themselves. There is a point where
God’s mercy is pulled back, and this is a prominent example. But
God is merciful to a fault, and to say any less of Him is offensive. The
Pharisees thought that God did not extend his mercy to certain
people. Here again we see another commonality between
Calvinism and Pharisaism.
In Matthew 9:10-13 we see the
Pharisees berating Jesus for associating with sinful people
(from their hypocritical, self righteous, and sinful position). Look
carefully at what Jesus says in verse
13. Jesus said: “I will have mercy, and not sacrifice:
for I am not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.” Did
he say some sinners? Is this not what the Pharisees thought,
that only some sinners are eligible? In Matthew
12:7 he further admonishes them for condemning those He
would have mercy on. “But if ye had known what this meaneth,
I will have mercy, and not sacrifice, ye would not have condemned
the guiltless.” In Matthew
20:30-31 the two blind men cry out for mercy.
He asked “What will ye that I shall do unto you?” They
replied “Lord, that our eyes may be opened.” And He opened
their eyes and they followed Him. God has mercy on those
that ask for it. And in Matthew
23:23 Jesus rebukes the Pharisees for leaving this weighty
matter of mercy undone. Those who ask for mercy should
receive it is point one. And point two is that if you
are a minister of God, you better not leave it undone, either
in your life, or your interpretation of scripture and definition
of God’s character. In Matthew
5:7 in the Sermon on the Mount Jesus makes it clear that
it is the merciful that obtain mercy. Now if Jesus made
so much out of this, it is inconceivable to me that He exempts
himself from providing mercy to those who ask. Or even
worse, sets things up in such a way so as some people could
not even ask. How troubling that Calvinists would falsely
teach about God the very same thing God condemned the Pharisees
for.
Argument
from
“Vessels of Wrath Fitted to Destruction”
Now
on to one of my favorites; the “vessels of wrath fitted to
destruction.” The Calvinist would have us believe that
this is referring to personal salvation, even though the
context is national election and God dealing with an enemy
in bringing this election about. What is meant
here in this passage about being “fitted?”
Well, as you can see, by now the Calvinist, having completely
thrown out the love, mercy and fairness of God discussed throughout
the Bible sees this along the same lines of despising (hating)
before birth for no reason. He sees it as being raised
up from birth to be God’s enemy. He sees it as withholding
mercy from people for arbitrary reasons that must fit with
their mystical interpretation of God’s sovereignty. Yes,
they see this as God foreordaining, preparing, and bringing
to pass the eternal damnation of people without giving them
a fair chance at repentance and salvation.
No greater libel against God’s character could be brought. Grammatically
we know that in the English as well as the Greek “fitted” can
be an adjective or a verb. Even as a verb you do not
have to assess all this Calvinistic bias on the passage. Pharaoh
fitted himself, and was fitted by God, but because of Pharaoh’s
heart, not due to God being cold hearted and not giving him
a fair opportunity. As an adjective it means
“appropriate for” destruction, which is probably the accurate
sense here anyway. Either way you have to read a great
deal into this passage for it to support the Calvinistic view
on personal salvation that regeneration precedes belief and
is dispensed arbitrarily by God.
Argument
from
“Who Hath Resisted His Will”
Finally,
let’s discuss another very prominent misinterpretation of Romans
9. Verse 19 says
“who hath resisted his will?” The obvious answer
is nobody. But the Calvinist would have you to also interpret
this in light of their heretical view of God. In other
words, everyone going to heaven and hell were willed there
by God, without any opportunity afforded them by God to choose. After
all, Romans 9:16 says “it is
not of him that willeth.” Instead of viewing this through
the lens of Calvinism, why don’t we refer to what the Bible
says God’s will is in reference to personal salvation to answer
this question? God said He was “not willing that any
should perish but that all should come to repentance” in 2Peter
3:9. But of course the Calvinist would fit this into
their framework by claiming that this epistle is written to
the elect, and it only refers to them. Well, how about
elsewhere. Can we learn about the will of God from other
places in the Bible? How about John
3:16? “For God so loved the world, that he
gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him
should not perish, but have everlasting life.” Here
we have God giving His wholly righteous Son to be humiliated
and tortured to death for our sakes. But of course
the Calvinist has this wedged within the narrow confines of
his legal system also. Of course “whosoever believeth”
refers to all the elect that will be regenerated and thus caused
to believe. What about the context of the book
of John? Look near the beginning of the book in John
1:7. This is why John the Baptist came, he “came
for a witness, to bear witness of the Light, that all men through
him might believe.” All men? Now let’s look in verse
12 where it says “as many as received him, to them gave
he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe
on his name.” So the ones that received Him were the
ones he gave power to become the sons of God? What power
is this He gave them, the power of supernatural regeneration
perhaps? But this puts regeneration after believing
on His name and receiving Him, and that is precisely the point. The
Calvinist may contend at this point that the “effectual calling” of “irresistible
grace” is not regeneration, but rather some other mysterious
supernatural mechanism they cannot define. Here they
step beyond the Bible and into this “Gnostic” mystical realm
of the knowledge of God that you have to be spiritual like
them to understand.
Argument
from “It Is Not of Him that Willeth”
Call
it “free will” or not, but it is a certainty that we have
enough will to be able to choose. The passage in Romans
9:16 that says
“it is not of him that willeth” is not excluding your choice
to believe and have faith. Central to this concept of
will in the context of Romans 9 is
someone bringing about things contrary to the will of God. This
is true, that is something you cannot do. But choosing
to believe in Jesus as your Saviour is something provided for
you in God’s will. God’s sovereign will is that you have
the ability to choose and a chance to receive Him of your own
volition.
That is why He is pleading with us all through His book to
use this wondrous latitude we have wisely and from the heart. We
are thinking and breathing sentient creatures with an eternal
soul given us by the almighty. Even though our thoughts
and activities must occur within the environment framed for
us by God, that framework gives us a wide margin for good and
evil. This framework is clearly more than sufficient
to provide sentient beings like us a choice. But that
seems to be the whole point of the Bible, that we are capable
of right and wrong, and choice.
Are
God’s Judgments Unjust?
The
Bible clearly teaches that we have a will that can make choices
within the latitude provided us by God. I think that
this is ubiquitous and lies implicitly in the underlying
fabric of our experience, whispering to us “you can choose.” This
is an issue of justness and fairness. How could God
judge us worthy of eternal damnation if we were not deserving
of it? Such an extreme punishment demands an equally
extreme justification. That is why I am utterly convinced
that God, in His infinite wisdom, has done the exact opposite
of what Calvinists claim. We must obviously have extraordinary
latitude in accepting God or not.
Irresistible grace implies that the opposite must be true,
that reprobation must be irresistible too. If that is
so, God would have no just basis upon which to judge man. This
is in stark contrast to the punishment and rewards at stake. This
fact alone indicates to me that we have been given a tremendous
capacity to either embrace God in love, or utterly despise
Him if we wish. And this is the biblical picture painted
for us regarding God’s judgment. God’s judgment is fair
and righteous beyond all human comprehension. An all
knowing and all loving creator does not take the issue of eternity
lightly. To quote Dave Hunt: “We may rest assured that
no one will suffer in hell who could by any means have been
won to Christ in this life. God leaves no stone unturned to
rescue all who would respond to the convicting and wooing of
the Holy Spirit.”
Is
Will and Choice Necessary for Love?
Yes, yes, most emphatically yes, a thousand times yes.
Before I was saved I am not sure I truly loved anyone. I
was so consumed with myself and all aspects of self-interest
that people were just pawns in a game that determined my
happiness. But one very special person came into my life
and over the course of years I hurt her repeatedly. She
loved me, but I did not return her love and did as I pleased.
I was not a Christian. But she had been raised in a good
Christian home and there was just something different about her.
I told her I loved her, but over time my love was crushing the
life out of her. The persistent evil in my heart slowly
but surely chipped away at her before my eyes. I knew I
was destroying her. This old hard heart of mine waxed
sore, and I found myself pleading her case in my heart.
She was so lovable that I searched the depths of my soul for a
reason why I did not love her. If this was my sister or
mother I reasoned, I would literally beat someone to a pulp for
treating them as I treated this person, for hurting them so.
But what if you are the one who is the perpetrator of evil?
What if you are the devil behind blue eyes? How do you get
clean of it? How do you rid yourself of the vermin that
infest your soul? The inconsistency was too great; the
hypocrisy of pretending to love someone you hurt daily was
overwhelming. I saw the man in the mirror for who he
really was…..a devil with a heart of evil. It was at that
point that I asked Jesus to save me. I didn’t know the
first thing about the Bible, but I knew my heart, and I had
heard that Jesus saves. That’s all you really need to
know. You see, at that moment I chose love. Not
Hollywood love, not lust, not slap you on the back Tremendous
Jones love, not the love of self-interest, but love that is
based on someone’s character and who they are as a person, a
love that produces as a natural consequence sacrifice and
unselfish giving.
My
Lord said:
Matthew
5:38-48
[Mat
5:38] Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an
eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
[Mat
5:39] But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever
shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other
also.
[Mat
5:40] And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away
thy coat, let him have thy cloak also.
[Mat
5:41] And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with
him twain.
[Mat
5:42] Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would
borrow of thee turn not thou away.
[Mat
5:43] Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love
thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
[Mat
5:44] But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that
curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them
which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
[Mat
5:45] That ye may be the children of your Father which is
in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and
on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
[Mat
5:46] For if ye love them which love you, what reward have
ye? do not even the publicans the same?
[Mat
5:47] And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more
than others? do not even the publicans so?
[Mat
5:48] Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which
is in heaven is perfect.
What
amazing words from the mind of our creator. You see,
love is not forcing someone to act a certain way (Calvinism),
and it is not coercing someone into working for it. Love
is a deep caring and admiration for someone for who they
are. That is what God wants from us. When you
understand God for who He is and love Him, you will want
to be like Him. That is why the Bible says that he
who says he loves God, but does not love his neighbor is
a liar (1John 4:20). God
is not zapping people into being believers. He is not
looking for people to earn merit with Him. It was this
unconditional love, a love that endures hardship and even
great evil that softened my heart and brought me to Christ. This
is the love of God folks. There is nothing more powerful
on this Earth than these words from our Lord. Some
think nuclear bombs are powerful, but they do not hold a
candle to the power of God’s words. Listen, He knows
that if you love Him you will have His best interests at
heart. You will work, and you will try not to do things
that hurt Him, but you will do this because you love Him
for who He is. I love God for who He is. He is
the author of love. I see very little of my God in
this theology of Calvinism, and that is why I will oppose
this as the false doctrine it is as long as breath is in
my body.
Conclusion
I know that if you take stock in Calvinism
this hits a little like a hammer, but as a preacher friend
of mine says
“God has different tools for different jobs."
Just keep in mind that this was written in a spirit of love
and concern by someone who considers this a fatalistic doctrine
capable of immense damage to highly valued friends and potentially
future great servants of the Lord God. If you are considering
making this your dominant view of God, I sincerely pray that
the eyes of your understanding be opened, and that your hearts
be softened to the fact that you can choose to love God or
not. Choose love my friends, choose love. It is
the first and great commandment, and by Jesus’ own words, it
is what everything in the Bible is about.
(Matthew
22:34-40) But when the Pharisees had heard that he had put
the Sadducees to silence, they were gathered together. Then one
of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him,
and saying, Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus
said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy
heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is
the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto
it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these
two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.