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Q: I am a born again believer and I can't put my
cigarette smoking habit away. How do I overcome this? I will not take
the pain and deny my flesh for too long, and it really discourages me. I
worry because I am hurting my testimony and the entire body of Christ by
my actions.
A: Sins of the flesh seem to be conquered in three ways
in the life of the believer. First, some are dropped easily
at the time of salvation. Second, some are conquered slowly
over a period of time as they become less and less powerful
in the life of the believer. Third, some will be conquered
after salvation at a time of crisis in the believer's life
when the sin is once and for all given up. Unfortunately,
there is one more category. That is the category of
besetting sin. Hebrews 12:1 calls this "the sin which doth
so easily beset us." This is a sin that seems to come back
and haunt us for years. I call it the early warning system
of our spiritual health. When we are strong in the Lord, we
are able to conquer even this sin. When we begin to waver in
our faith, this is the first sin that shows its ugly head.
Particular sins (like smoking or lying) cannot be
automatically placed in the above categories. They work
differently with different people. For instance, I have
heard different testimonies about how individuals have
gotten the victory over cursing. Sometimes, the victory is
acquired at salvation. At other times, it is a gradual
victory. In still other cases, it comes as the result of a
later spiritual crisis where the believer is convicted
concerning his sin and finally gives it up to the Lord
entirely.
However, in your case, I think we can count out certain
categories for how you will conquer smoking. First, we know
you did not get the victory at salvation. Second, I doubt
that you can get the victory gradually. Addictive sins
usually have to be conquered all at once. Also, I would not
look on this sin as a besetting sin. Besetting sins are
usually the more subtle sins of the heart like bitterness or
lust. Smoking is an outward sin that is obvious to all. In
short, it hurts your immediate testimony for the Lord. God
will not leave it in your life as a besetting sin. He wants
you to have total victory.
Clearly, you need to come to a spiritual crisis by which
you once and for all give up smoking. Please understand, I
am not saying that this is going to be easy. Neither is this
crisis something that you can create on demand. All I can do
is give you some advice on how to seek after this crisis and
prepare you to get the complete victory.
1. Go to the Lord in a most serious manner and tell Him
that you want Him to do whatever it takes to remove this sin
from you. Pray this prayer in faith and expect that somehow
in the future God will grant this request. This is a very
serious and solemn matter. Do not take it lightly. I suggest
that you take a pack of cigarettes and lay them before the
Lord. Tell Him that you want Him to have the victory in this
sin. Mean it. Then destroy that pack of cigarettes.
2. From then on, every time you smoke a cigarette,
confess it as a sin to God. I mean every cigarette you
smoke. Not once a week or once a day. Confess every one as a
sin. Admit with each cigarette that you are disobeying the
will of God for your life. Call it a sin to the Lord and
plead for His forgiveness.
3. Make it a regular prayer that God would remove this
sinful habit from you. Tell Him how much you look forward to
the day when He gives you freedom from this bondage. Tell
Him the reasons why you want this victory. Keep praying even
when you do not see any results.
Now, one of two things will happen. Either you will stop
confessing each cigarette as a sin and stop praying for
victory, or else God will at some point (when He sees you
are ready) give you complete victory over the habit. I pray
you will hold out until the victory comes. God bless.
Till He comes,
Pastor David Reagan