What are the things that are most important to you? Judge them by the vanity factor. Do they satisfy? Will they last? How does God view them?
I met a man during a trip to China. He doesn't know me but he taught me some things. He reminded me of what God expects from me. Allow him to do the same for you.
We are so limited in our understanding by having the world in our hearts. Yet God is working all things together to the good of His own people and purposes.